Author: Bernz Ordoñez Caasi

  • Wait, what!? We can be saints? How?

    Wait, what!? We can be saints? How?

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    “Holiness is not something for the privileged few: God calls everyone, Love awaits all of us: everyone, no matter where he may be; everyone, no matter what his state in life, his profession or trade. For that ordinary everyday life, apparently unimportant, can be a means to holiness.”

    St. Josemaria Escriva

    Almost five years ago, my mentor, who also happened to be my first year college Theology professor, told me something that would probably require a lifetime to fully understand. As we walked from our house after a visit, he gently thumped my head, saying, “Remember, you will be a saint.

    “A saint?” As a non-Catholic Christian at the time, someone who didn’t even believe in saints, I just had to laugh. He was just trying to make me feel good about my struggles in school and in my personal life, I thought.

    For me, it was a joke, but it stayed with me and I never forgot it. Now as a Catholic, I see how it makes so much sense. Usually, the idea of being a saint sounds scary and crazy. We think that being holy is just for priests or pastors. Hearing the word holy alone already evokes images of secluded monks praying, incense, nuns fervently reciting the Rosary, and priestly robes.

    We fall into the thinking that “I’m just human and I don’t think I can ever be a saint” or worse, we resent the idea. “I don’t want to be a saint, it’s not my thing.” Do I have to be a special someone to be a saint – a priest? a nun? a monk?

    Almost nine decades ago, a simple Catholic priest from Barbastro, Spain challenged that thinking and shocked the world with the idea that everyone can be a saint – more than that, he preached that we are called by God to become saints!

    St. Josemaría Escrivá de Balaguer established in 1928 a Catholic organization called Opus Dei (Work of God) to inspire people from all walks of life to pursue the path to holiness wherever they are and whatever they do in their personal and professional lives. During his time, it was so radical that many people, even priests, accused him of heresy. Eventually, Christians around the world slowly realized the truths behind his message. The Second Vatican Council would even later on affirm and proclaim the idea of the universal call to holiness.

    Here are two points on holiness that we could think about:

    • Our work makes us more like Jesus. Our jobs mean more to us than just a paycheck or even helping people. It is in our nature to grow in holiness – becoming more and more like Jesus everyday – through our work. I remember my philosophy professor saying there is no work without toil or effort. It is through the pain or difficulty of our work that we can unite ourselves with the sufferings of Christ who lived a life of toil (St. Escrivá’s The Way, 356).
    • The ordinary can be holy. – Our work, however menial it may seem, holds a deeper meaning. St. Escrivá tells us, “there is something holy, something hidden in the most ordinary situations…” (Passionately Loving the World, 1967). If you are a student, the best way to be holy is to be a good student. If you are a broadcaster, you can pursue sainthood by being an advocate of the truth. If you are a teacher, you can be a saint by offering up your sacrifices for your students. If you are a lawyer, you can be holy by living with integrity. If you are a politician, you can walk the path of godliness as you fight for the common good.

    Thank you, St. Josemaría, for inspiring us to be not-so-ordinary saints in our ordinary lives. Let us all call on him to intercede for us through this prayer.

    What do you think? Share your thoughts in the comment section below.

    Blessed Sunday everyone!

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  • 6 Valentine’s Day Quotes You Will Never Forget (and more!)

    Once again, it’s February 14, the Feast Day of St. Valentine and as always, love is truly in the air! Coincidentally, Catholic Christians all over the world will also begin the forty-day Lent with Ash Wednesday happening with Valentine’s Day.

    While Valentine’s is commonly associated with romantic stuff like dating and courtship, Lent is marked by the Church’s more intense focus on prayer, almsgiving, and fasting. One thing is common between these two celebrations – love. The first one calls for the renewal and deepening of one’s love for others while the second one invites everyone into a season of conversion where people could truly encounter the love of God.

    Here are 6 things we need to remember to make our celebration of this love month and our relationships extra memorable and meaningful.

    1. Real Men Commit to Real Love

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    How do we know if love is real? Is real love real? Real love, I think, is accepting and valuing someone for who s/he is and willing nothing but the best for that person. Real love does not seek anything in return but gives all to the beloved – even if it is not easy, even if it would sacrifices.

    As St. Paul said, love is also patient and kind. It does not seek itself and dishonor the other. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. But the best thing in what he said is this – true love never fails for it always wins.

    2. Love Wins if Men Respect Women

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    Respect can be shown in various ways. People in a relationship can show their mutual respect for one another through the way they talk, dress – or even think! But most of all, I think respect makes love win when a man and a woman sees each other as persons to love and not as things to use. This realization leads both a man and a woman to a path of modesty and decency.

    Would you believe that respect is also expressed in decency?

    3. Dun Tayo sa Cutie na Disente Pa (Let’s Go for Someone Who’s Cute and Decent)

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    Girls, not all cute men are bad boys! Cute and decent guys do exist. Look around you, some of them might be wearing glasses. Kidding (but jokes are half-meant, right?) 😉

    Can your boyfriend pass the decency test? Let’s see.

    Does he give suggestive remarks on proving your love through sleeping together? Hmmm, that could be a major red flag – is love just sexual? Not quite.

    Does he make rash remarks about the way you or other girls dress? Does he curse a lot? Remember that out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. Our words are the reflection of who we are as persons. 🙂

    To put it simply, does he respect you and women in general?

    Does he respect you (and himself) by practicing self-control? Remember…

    4. Ang Tunay na Lodi, May Kontrol Sa Sarili (The one we should idolize is the one who has self-control)

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    Let’s be frank here – would you marry in the future someone who cannot even control his urges today? I think it is helpful to remember the dignity of man – that among all creatures man alone possesses the capacity to think and to choose. Therefore, the good news is we have the power to choose not to be enslaved by our urges.

    5. Good Guys Save Sex

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    Let’s set the record straight. Sex is a sacred wonderful gift from God. It is not evil and the objective of struggling for chastity is not the annihilation of our sexual desires but the real understanding of its purpose in the divine design.

    And while you are slowly taking in the contents of this blog, remember our last tip…

    6. Kung ‘Di Makatulog Sa Gabi, Magdasal Nang Mabuti. (If you cannot sleep at night, pray well.)

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    You may not agree with everything you have just read. It’s okay, but I encourage you to pray more about it. After all, we are in the season of Lent as well. This is an invitation for us to allow God to show us the way to real love and true happiness that we deserve.

    Why #FreeFromPorn?

    In case you are wondering why the pictures have #freefromporn, those pictures are part of the recent campaign of Prolife Philippines, Filipinos for Life, and other groups. Last Sunday, February 11, we went to Luneta Park in Manila to give free candies with quotes on love, encouraging people to give chastity a chance. You may want to watch the video of this activity from one of the news programs in the country:

    Here are the other quotes we have included in the candies…

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    DISCLAIMER: Not all Tindr users are “users.” This quote should be understood in the context of those who use this app to derive inappropriate sexual pleasures from people through indecency (e.g. asking for nude pictures, etc.)

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    NOTE: All images and quotations are conceptualized and designed by Mark Villaluna. Bernz Caasi gave some inputs in the conceptualization of quotes.

    Do you want to be part of this rising movement of young people standing up for #RealLove? Do you want to know more how you can be #FreeToLove by #GivingChastityAChance?

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